The 21 Day Giving Challenge
This is for those of you that are fed up with having to put on a fake face because you just don't know how to still BE YOURSELF when the social pressure gets high. It is designed to rapidly increase your self-worth and as a result, help you act with more freedom in all areas of your life. ~45 people have completed it so far. Take it while it's still free.
Here's Tiia and Samu from Finland:
Tiia
Samu Day 0
Samu Day 14
Samu Month 2
Here's Vidya Before and After
“People often underestimate the power of the 21 days of giving. Because it sounds very simplistic. Often I will hear "I am already a giver..." Like Mariani, I do have an adventurous curious mind. So one cannot know about the power of the 21 days giving. And how much it uplifts you, until you really do it. (By the way, I did more than 21 days) Because I lost count and probably got addicted to the giving. Plus the compliments I've received from total strangers about "the light" they saw in me. That really boosted my ego. 🤓 Then after about 25 days of giving, I was in magical Ericiera having amazing experiences.”
Here's what Mariani had to say:
“I found the 21 day giving challenge a challenge to begin with 😆 however, it filled me with such joy and gratitude when realising this tiny act of giving could transform someone’s day, just the look on their faces, nothing can beat that! I also like the suggestion to go out and give something to someone when you’re not having a good day. Whatever you pour into someone’s cup will be poured into yours. 🙏😻”
And Nalan:
“Even if I didn't manage to keep it up for 21 days in a row due to illness 🙁 (I started again with small gestures). It's a wonderful exercise that promotes gratitude and positive habits. I don't think you always have to give something big, a compliment, time or attention for someone else is also enough. I've noticed that smiling at a stranger automatically comes back to me and it has always given me energy and joy. I believe that when this manifests itself, giving something can be positive for the other person and for yourself at the same time, as it radiates. They create a connection, that's how I feel now with the street sweepers where I live. 🤣 I hope that when I have really internalized this, it will help me to reflect on my behavior and focus on what I really want in life.”
Finally, for my Turkish friends:
Here's Damla, my very first student, talking about her experience after the 21 Day Giving Challenge. Not everyone feels as drastic a change as she did, but I have not seen one person who has not transcended their main suffering points. You can listen to it below:
So how do you start?
Glad you asked...
It's extremely simple. I'll give you the whole list of the things to do. And a few ground rules. And you'll never look back. I promise.
So here you go. Go here for the complete list of things to do for the 21 days: The New 21 Day Giving Challenge
And here are the extremely simple ground rules: The Ground Rules
If you simply aren't in the mood to even lift a finger up, here's the remedy: The Remedy
What if it doesn't work?
There can only be one reason this doesn't work. You didn't follow the rules. The thing that might be missed is, if you feed cats on your street everyday, and you go feed the same cats, the process would fail. Why? We are trying to open new possibilities for you. So you need to get out of that street and find another street and cats you haven't fed before. You are not allowed to repeat the thing you've been doing your whole life.
Why is this free?
Because I don't want to deprive anyone of information that'll massively change WHO they are and as a result their lives and happiness. So that's why. I do offer an option where I coach you directly on the process. If you are interested, reach out to me below.
Is this a comfort zone exercise?
No, not at all. It doesn't require you to get out of your comfort zone at all, really. If you noticed, the first 6 days are just feeding animals. And I don't think it's possible for cats to judge you because you didn't feed them Whiskas brand cat food. :)
But, but, butttt...
I have been through extreme trauma when I was little, I can't be saved, I'm broken. Well... if you really knew why and how you were broken, you would have already solved it, right? Don't use that as an excuse to skip something that will put the trauma to the past once and for all.
If you are a woman…
All women I’ve worked with until now have objected to me saying that giving is all they do, and that that is their problem to begin with. Which is a BIG misconception. Yes, women by their nature are pleasers and givers because they are really good at emphatizing. Yet this type of giving comes from a biological tendency vs from the creative brain. Thus if you see someone on the street hungry and you give them something because you feel for him, it won’t work. Because it wouldn’t activate inside you what we are trying to activate: YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE.Therefore we practice PROACTIVE giving. In other words, we plan somehing and go out there and make it happen. If we had not willed that into existence, that cat would not have been fed. We create that reality, by willing it and doing it. We are not reacting to a situation, we are creating a brand new situation. When we do that we become more like a CREATOR than just a passive being that pleases others. And that will change EVERYTHING for you as a woman. (Amy this is for you, thanks for bringing this to my attention)
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